Misunderstood.!

I hate being seen as something I'm not. Theres always a time were what you say is misunderstood for something else. How do you get someone to understand your point of view and see that what you said wasn't to hurt them or wasn't to be rude. How  does saying something just a simple comment turn out to be something big and not needed... I'm glad to leave everything in the past but I just hate to have people think I'm something I'm not just for a misunderstanding... In life the more specific you are the LESS misunderstanding there can be.. It bothers alot to see a close friend just assume and not listen, but I cant take back what I said and that it was misunderstood but from now on its M.I.A and not getting involved, keeping my thoughts to myself and just laying back. I'm only helping people out when its asked for. Besides that I'm done and over it.. Enough said.!!!!